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_\u201cSurprise is the greatest gift which life can grant us.\u201d –Boris Pasternak_
\nSeorang teman baik kemaren mengabarkan (oke, oke, menggosipkan) bahwa ada teman baik kita yang lain, yg baru saja selesai dalam proses penceraian, sekarang tengah menjalin hubungan dengan atasan senior di kantornya yang berasal dari Asia Selatan, seorang duda beranak dua.
\nSetelah dia menyampaikan berita itu dan gue terlihat tidak bereaksi beberapa saat, kemudian dia menambahkan: _life is full of surprises…_
\n_Indeed it is._
\nTerus terang aja, kata pertama yang muncul di otak gue adalah “SHITE!”:http:\/\/www.urbandictionary.com\/define.php?term=shite (diucapkan _sait_, versi keren dari kata _shit_, seperti _biatch_ adalah versi keren dari _bitch_. Kenapa diterangin nda?) dan setelah terkejut, gue kemudian tersenyum ketika nyadar bahwa masih ada juga yang bisa membuat gue surprise. Membuat gue terkejut.
\nKarena bukahkah itu artinya gue masih muda? (Yeaa!) \ud83d\ude00
\nMasih bisa terkejut, masih ada yang belum gue tahu, belum gue pikir, belum gue liat, belum gue alami di dunia ini sehingga gue masih bisa terkejut.
\nMasih ada hal-hal di dunia ini yang mengagetkan gue. Yang memerangkap gue dalam beberapa momen kehilangan kata-kata. Menangkap ke-enam indera di tubuh gue dalam kondisi ketertarikan.
\nMasih ada yang membuat jiwa gue berteriak: Yes! This is NEW!
\nBaru di momen itu gue tersadarkan betapa kemampuan untuk terkejut, kaget, _fascinated_ tersebut adalah sesuatu yang berharga.
\nSesuatu yang kita punya saat kita kecil dan sedikit demi sedikit hilang bersama bertambahnya umur.
\n“Gala”:http:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/enda\/tags\/gala\/ misalnya, anak gue yang bulan ini berumur 15 bulan selalu tertarik dan _fascinated_ terhadap hampir semua yang mama papanya lakukan.
\nMaen komputer, baca buku, nonton tv, cuci baju, kipas angin, laci meja. Semua dia lihat dengan penuh ketertarikan dan keterkejutan.
\nSaat gue gosok gigi, cuci muka, bahkan cukuran bulu-bulu muka maka dia akan berdiri di sebelah gue, menatap penuh perhatian dan ingin tahu. Tertarik, karena ini sesuatu yang baru buat dia, sesuatu yang mengejutkan!
\nBahkan setiap kali gue buru-buru masuk kamar mandi mau kencing maka dia bakal lari-lari kecil di belakang pengen ikut, dan setelahnya dengan penuh antusiasme menarik gagang flush toilet sehingga airnya keluar.
\n“OMG! Ternyata gagang di toilet ini bisa mengeluarkan air, menyiram air seninya papa!”, begitu mungkin pikirnya.
\nCoba bayangkan, apakah kamu mau ngikut gue ke kamar mandi dan mem-flush air kencing gue dengan penuh ketertarikan? :p
\n 
\nDari situ gue jadi ngerti dorongan temen-temen untuk selalu “dikagetkan” akan sesuatu yang baru. Musik yang baru, album baru yang akan keluar bulan depan. Film baru dari sutradara yang kita tahu selalu “mengagetkan” kita dengan berbagai cara.
\nBeli baju baru, sepatu baru, asesoris baru. Kirim-kirim email lucu, baca-baca email lucu.
\nGadget baru yang kita baca di satu majalah dan akan _launch di market_ minggu ini. Kawin lagi dan punya “istri baru umur 19 tahun”:http:\/\/www.liputan6.com\/view\/3,129329,1,0,1.html.
\nSoftware release baru, “anime”:http:\/\/www.id-anime.info\/ baru untuk di download, situs baru yang muncul, posting baru di blog ini, komen-komen baru (waa! komen baru! hehe)
\nKehausan kita akan sesuatu yang baru, untuk dikejutkan dari waktu ke waktu, adalah cara kita untuk mempertahankan ikatan dan ingatan saat kita masih kecil, masih muda. Dan mungkin supaya berasa muda.
\nDengan berbagai cara masing-masing, kita mencari hal-hal baru. Mencari hal-hal yang mengejutkan kita. Yang secara _genuine_ mengejutkan kita, bukan terkejut yang dibuat-buat. Yang membuat kita diam beberapa saat dan berseru _SHITE!_
\nDan itu yang mungkin yang kita lakukan sekarang.
\nSetengah mati ingin terkejut dan dikejutkan.
\nSetengah mati menunda saat-saat dimana kita berkata, _there’s nothing new under the sun_ dan _nothing surprise me anymore_.
\nSetengah mati menghindari masa saat kita sudah begitu sinis, _jaded_, dan lelah sehingga apapun tidak menarik perhatian kita lagi.
\nSemoga hari-hari itu tidak akan pernah datang dan semoga kita selalu mampu untuk terkejut.
\n_Nah sekarang… jangan ngeliatin aja dong, sudah boleh di-flush tuh toiletnya._ \ud83d\ude00
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(Maksudnya ada orang lain yang membenci diri mereka juga, bukannya membenci gue hehe.) Di *43Things.com* setidaknya ada 135 orang yang menyatakan bahwa _[\"Stop hating myself\":http:\/\/www.43things.com\/things\/view\/14835]_ sebagai tujuan mereka.\u2026","rel":"","context":"With 43 comments","block_context":{"text":"With 43 comments","link":"https:\/\/enda.goblogmedia.com\/?p=449#comments"},"img":{"alt_text":"hate.jpg","src":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/enda.goblogmedia.com\/images\/hate.jpg?resize=350%2C200","width":350,"height":200},"classes":[]}],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/enda.goblogmedia.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/455","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/enda.goblogmedia.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/enda.goblogmedia.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/enda.goblogmedia.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/enda.goblogmedia.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=455"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/enda.goblogmedia.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/455\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/enda.goblogmedia.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=455"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/enda.goblogmedia.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=455"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/enda.goblogmedia.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=455"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}