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_?Solitude is fine, but you need someone to tell you that solitude is fine.? –Honore de Balzac_
\nBaru-baru ini New York Times menurunkan artikel dengan judul “[“Shutting Themselves In”:http:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2006\/01\/15\/magazine\/15japanese.html]” yang bercerita tentang fenomena sosial di Jepang, dimana saat ini diestimasi ada 1 juta remaja, kebanyakan laki-laki di Jepang melakukan Hikikomori yang secara literal berarti _withdrawal_ atau menarik diri.
\nPada prakteknya para Hikikomori ini, yang rata-rata berusia 13-15 tahun, pada suatu hari masuk ke kamar mereka dan tidak mau keluar lagi hingga bertahun-tahun yang pada banyak kasus bertahan hingga lebih dari 10 tahun.
\nMasuk kamar dan tidak keluar lagi. Meninggalkan dan menutup diri dari dunia luar. Kebanyakan menghabiskan waktu dengan bermain game atau musik, atau menghabiskan waktu di depan komputer dan entah apa lagi yang mereka kerjakan di dalam kamarnya.
\nHikikomori dimungkinkan salah satunya karena budaya Jepang yang memungkinkan seorang anak untuk tinggal bersama orang tuanya melewati masa remaja [familiar ya], dan juga karena pekerjaan orang tua memungkinan mereka untuk menghidupi anaknya tersebut.
\nDi sisi lain ada kekhawatiran orang tua bahwa sang anak tidak akan bertahan hidup diatas kaki mereka sendiri. Apa yang terjadi jika sang orang tua tidak bisa menghidupi para Hikikomori lagi? Para Hikikomori tidak memiliki teman, pengetahuan dan keahlian untuk hidup bersama orang lain, atau untuk mencari penghasilan mereka sendiri.
\nTekanan lingkungan, terutama di sekolah, dan juga tekanan dari orang tua dan masyarakat disebut sebagai penyebab utama Hikikomori terjadi. Mereka yang tidak tahan lagi dari tekanan-tekanan ini kemudian melakukan Hikikomori, sebagai bukan suatu solusi, tapi mungkin sebagai upaya melarikan diri dan lari dari tekanan hidup.
\n*Terus terang gue bisa ngerti* perilaku Hikikomori. Berkali-kali gue melakukan Hikikomori dalam versi gue sendiri. Untungnya periodenya sangat pendek. Biasanya satu atau dua hari. Saat gue ngerasa udah males banget, lakukan Hikikomori, ga pergi sekolah atau ga ngantor. Dan, alhamdulillah besoknya gue ngerasa bisa lagi menghadapi dunia. Ga sampai Hikikomori sampai bertahun-tahun.
\nTapi yang pasti proses _withdrawal_ itu gue lakukan.
\nHikikomori karenanya jadi fenomena yang cukup khusus ke terjadi ke cowok karena cowok rasanya ga punya kebutuhan besar untuk berbagi tekanan yang dirasakan seperti cewek. Cukup didiemin aja dan mudah-mudahan bisa hilang. Lari. Lari dari tanggung jawab dan lari dari kenyataan.
\n*Yang menarik di dunia online* kamu bisa melakukan Hikikomori lebih mudah. Tidak perlu proses masuk kamar. Jika tekanan dunia online sudah terasa sangat berat, belum lagi ditambah informasi _overload_ kamu bisa tinggal lari dan meninggalkan identitas online kamu: *Hikikomori Online*.
\nDan mungkin muncul dengan identitas online baru, tanpa beban dan tekanan dari identitas yang lama. Fresh, seperti baru lahir.
\n*Di dunia International*, mungkin Hikikomori juga ya yang terjadi pada beberapa negara yang merasa: _”Perlu ga sih gue bergaul dan menerima tekananan dari banyak negara lain?”_ Apa ga bagusnya gue menutup diri aja, lari dari kenyataan sekitar? Kuba, Myanmar, Iran, Korea Utara: *Hikikomori Bangsa*.
\nMungkin Indonesia perlu melakukan Hikikomori barang setahun dua tahun. Lupakan dunia luar sementara dan kerjain apa yang bisa dikerjain sendiri dengan sumber daya sendiri. Akankan jadi lebih baik atau lebih buruk saat kita keluar nanti?
\n*Atau perlukah kita* yang melakukan Hikikomori dari Indonesia? Mungkin itu sebuah bentuk yang gue dan teman-teman di luar negri lain lakukan.
\nMinggu lalu gue bercakap-cakap di Bangkok dengan seorang seorang teman yang akan bekerja di Vietnam. Hidupnya sudah lumayan stabil di Jakarta sebenarnya, mobil, rumah dan pekerjaan serta salary bagus. Entah kenapa menurut dia kok rasanya capek banget hidup di Jakarta.
\nMungkin, gue mencoba menebak dan menjawab kebingungan dia, karena elu ga bisa cuek sama sekeliling elu. Setiap ada berita kriminal, kemiskinan, bencana alam, ketidakberesan, seketika itu pula terasa bahwa yang terjadi itu merupakan bagian dari identitas elu sendiri.
\nDi sini, di Bangkok. Gue _bisa memilih_ untuk ga peduli kalo pemerintahnya korupsi. Kalo ada bencana alam, kalo ada yang ga beres, kalo ada yang kacau, karena gue cuma numpang disini bukan pemilik. Tekanan lingkungan itu lebih sedikit di sini karenanya.
\nKalo elu pemilik elu ga bisa cuek. Kalo elu numpang elu bisa.
\nAtau kalo elu pemilik yang _serasa atau berasa numpang_ elu bisa cuek dan lari dari tekanan.
\nMasalahnya sekarang, dia cerita lagi, gue ga yakin sebenarnya apa gue pemilik apa bukan?
\nMungkin elu perlu melakukan Hikikomori kata gue.
\nApa tuh? Dia bertanya.
\nMenutup diri.
\nMenutup diri dari diri sendiri?
\nHikikomori Otak.
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