{"id":286,"date":"2003-03-11T11:01:18","date_gmt":"2003-03-11T11:01:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/enda.goblogmedia.com\/?p=286"},"modified":"2003-03-11T11:01:18","modified_gmt":"2003-03-11T11:01:18","slug":"ingat_dan_lupa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/enda.goblogmedia.com\/?p=286","title":{"rendered":"Ingat dan Lupa"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Ingatan atau memory is truly a <em>wonderful thing<\/em>.<br \/>\nMaksud gue bukan aja <strong>kemampuan kita buat inget<\/strong> tapi juga <strong>kemampuan kita buat lupa<\/strong>. Jangan salah bisa inget dan bisa lupa sama pentingnya.<br \/>\nIngatan atau Memory adalah yg ngebentuk siapa kita, karakter kita dan di level tertentu, <strong>hidup kita<\/strong>. Tanpa ingatan, kita ga bisa inget siapa kita ini, apa kebiasaan kita. Kita ga bisa nentuin gimana kita bereaksi ama sekeliling kita.<br \/>\nTanpa ingatan gue ga tau apa gue ini orangnya pemalu? Atau pemberani? Gue ga tau apa gue suka ayam dan ga suka ikan, misalnya. Gue ga tau apa gue naksir ama si A atau suka ama si B.<br \/>\n<strong>Ingatan adalah yg menentukan hidup kita sehari-hari<\/strong>. Amazing kalo kita nyadarin bahwa sebagian besar isu, masalah dan kenyataan sebenernya cuma ada di ingatan kita doang.<br \/>\nBayangin orang yg ga punya kemampuan mengingat. Di film <a href=\"http:\/\/us.imdb.com\/Title?0209144\" target=\"_blank\">Memento (2000)<\/a> , tokoh utamanya adalah orang yg kehilangan daya ingat pendek. Dia cuma bisa inget hanya beberapa menit doang. Dia bisa lupa orang di depan dia temen dia ngobrol. Di film itu dia harus men-tatto tubuhnya ama tulisan2x supaya dia inget. Dia harus nyatet pagi2x gosok gigi trus cukuran di kakinya supaya ga lupa. <em>That is not a life at all<\/em>.<br \/>\nSelain bisa mengingat, bisa lupa adalah kemampuan yg ga kalah pentingnya.<br \/>\n<strong>Bayangin kalo kamu ga bisa lupa<\/strong>. Kamu ga akan survive. Sekian kali patah hati yg terjadi ga bisa kamu lupain, sekian kali kejadian yg memalukan ga bisa kamu lupain, sekian kali rasa kehilangan, rasa sakit, rasa sedih ga bisa kamu lupain.<br \/>\nKemampuan buat lupa sama esensialnya buat survival dengan kemampuan buat inget.<br \/>\nDengan lupa kita bisa merasakan senangnya lagi saat kita menemukan sesuatu yg sudah kita lupakan. Kita bisa baca buku yg sama berkali-kali karena ada yg kita lupain, kita bisa nonton film yg sama berkali-kali karena kita lupa, kita lupa hal-hal detail, kita lupa proses menyenangkan saat kita membaca buku itu atau menonton film itu.<br \/>\n<strong>Proses menemukan kembali<\/strong> karena kita <em>bisa<\/em> lupa hampir sama menyenangkannya dengan proses saat kita pertama kali melakukannya.<br \/>\nKita ingat rasanya saat kita bersama, tapi saat kita bersama LAGI, adalah.. <em>ketidaksabaran<\/em>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ingatan atau memory is truly a wonderful thing. 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